tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4936905206079131856.post4606214130537164646..comments2023-10-26T04:41:06.155-07:00Comments on Mama Birth: C-Sections, Placenta Previa, & How They Hurt Tori SpellingMama Birthhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08117513287607189564noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4936905206079131856.post-69059193083173265732013-04-09T11:15:31.822-07:002013-04-09T11:15:31.822-07:00When you say "doubles" you fail to menti...When you say "doubles" you fail to mention that the risk remains very, very low. <br />You should relax with your judgement and let women decide how they want to deliver. While there is risk with a C-Section, it is actually safer for the baby than a vaginal birth (no risk for hypoxia etc.).<br />Vaginal birth can hold as much risk as a C-Section. <br />So while your intentions are probably good - you should worry about you and let other women make their own decisions without judgement. LaLahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06176614104386231474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4936905206079131856.post-74619722723775838352012-11-13T08:13:56.534-08:002012-11-13T08:13:56.534-08:00Placenta previa, acretia, and many other problems ...Placenta previa, acretia, and many other problems are increased with each cesarean birth. She needed that fourth c-section. It is however unlikely that she would have had a previa if not for all the other cesareans.Todd Verslueshttps://twitter.com/chrisureiterg/status/263323923641405440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4936905206079131856.post-55717115265300053822012-10-26T07:08:09.504-07:002012-10-26T07:08:09.504-07:00While her previous c-sections may have contributed...While her previous c-sections may have contributed to her placenta previa, I too had a baby this year after a complete placenta previa and had never had a c section before. So its not impossible, it is scary, and I wish more people understood the condition.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4936905206079131856.post-77730590843106991462012-10-11T18:57:15.908-07:002012-10-11T18:57:15.908-07:00Placenta previa, acretia, and many other problems ...Placenta previa, acretia, and many other problems are increased with each cesarean birth. She needed that fourth c-section. It is however unlikely that she would have had a previa if not for all the other cesareans.Mama Birthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08117513287607189564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4936905206079131856.post-48723441429903389632012-10-11T18:51:25.994-07:002012-10-11T18:51:25.994-07:00Multiple c-sections is one issue, placenta previa ...Multiple c-sections is one issue, placenta previa is another. I had a complete previa with my second pregnancy (after a vaginal birth) with none of the indicators. I was told that they don't always know what causes a previa, as I had nothing to indicate that I would get it. I spent two months on bed rest and my son was born via emergency c-section at 34 weeks. Having babies is a serious and joyful occasion, but I won't have another to risk my health.Alison KMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04630289478757618661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4936905206079131856.post-90648391781843740182012-10-11T14:13:10.047-07:002012-10-11T14:13:10.047-07:00From what I have heard, her first c-section was du...From what I have heard, her first c-section was due to a failed induction with her first pregnancy. Then, it just went on from there with a RCS and an 2nd RCS and now a 3 RCS. I am with you 100%. We should be talking about placenta previa, placenta accreta, increased rates of ectopic pregnancy, increased rate of hysterectomy and not to mention the hundreds of other complications from major surgery. Thank you for your post. I hope it gets people talking and learning!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10931521361484061986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4936905206079131856.post-59493714752111699782012-10-11T10:03:23.167-07:002012-10-11T10:03:23.167-07:00I think a lot of women are so angry with Tori beca...I think a lot of women are so angry with Tori because they can't believe this is not her fault and that this could just as easily be them. Yes this was her 4th, this could have happened with her 2nd. Few women want to believe that they may not be able to trust their dr's, that their birth choices were not the safest, or that their past birth choices may negatively affect their health in the future. It's so much easier to hate a celebrity.Cori Gentryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05847077542786622084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4936905206079131856.post-8823995388572874802012-10-11T09:44:18.977-07:002012-10-11T09:44:18.977-07:00Anon- I get what you are saying. But seriously- t...Anon- I get what you are saying. But seriously- that was her FOURTH c-section. What about VBAC after the first? Come on now. Obviously there are a lot of factors here. (For all I know she needed every single section. No idea.)<br />But the TRUTH of the matter is that many women are told after the FIRST (not the third or fourth and with no birth spacing taken into account) cesarean that they must ALWAYS have c-sections. OR they are told they can "try" for a VBAC and then they are sabotaged the whole way. Have you talked to women planning VBAC after just ONE c-section? Because where I teach there is ONE hospital out of 5 or 6 in the area that even ALLOWS VBAC. And then you must be continuously monitored and deliver spontaneously by 41 weeks. Truth is those things alone make it impossible for most women to VBAC because- A) their insurance doesn't cover that one hospital B)they carry babies slightly longer than that or C) constant (let's be real - SUPINE) monitoring really makes it next to impossible to actually progress. <br />So while Tori's LAST birth (her 4th c-section with a placenta previa and a very close birth spacing) most certainly needed to be a c-section I think I could make a pretty strong argument (and I did) that she (and all women) should have been given the option and availability of VBAC after her first c-section. So there.Mama Birthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08117513287607189564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4936905206079131856.post-60689355681885124762012-10-11T05:11:30.759-07:002012-10-11T05:11:30.759-07:00I'm sorry, but Spelling would not likely have ...I'm sorry, but Spelling would not likely have been a candidate for safe VBAC given how close together her pregnancies were. I'm all for educating people about their options regarding VBAC and RCS, but she is hardly the poster child for safe decisions post-c/s. You need to find a WAY better example to make your case. Her reckless decision to not use protection four weeks post-third c/s has nothing to do w/ c/s rates in this country or VBAC education. I appreciate your passion, but you do a disservice to the discussion here. Tori Spelling was irresponsible, and that's all there is to it. This doesn't have anything to do with fixing the culture of birth in America, if indeed it needs to be "fixed" at all. In all honesty, I'm sure her doctors were doing all they could, given the dangerous circumstances, to deliver baby safely.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4936905206079131856.post-56359529994052802772012-10-10T22:27:46.002-07:002012-10-10T22:27:46.002-07:00Amen, sister.Amen, sister.melissa v.https://www.blogger.com/profile/14872177586401321895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4936905206079131856.post-39874295427735345382012-10-10T16:32:21.609-07:002012-10-10T16:32:21.609-07:00what a scary birth for her. i wish it had gone smo...what a scary birth for her. i wish it had gone smoother, been a more calming and lovely experience instead of the nightmare i am sure it felt like.<br />i think it is a shame that we have become so accustom to these sorts of things. how birth horror stories are all over the place and how so many of them might have been prevented if we could just view pregnancy and birth differently. our system is so broken.momto5https://www.blogger.com/profile/09466129937608631217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4936905206079131856.post-33573140464166524272012-10-10T14:27:23.880-07:002012-10-10T14:27:23.880-07:00Such a great post, thank you. And something I wish...Such a great post, thank you. And something I wish more women were aware of, especially first time mamas - instead of selling the c section to them as 'an easy way out', they should be aware that it can change the direction of their whole birth career, which is important if you want more than one baby and critical if you are planning 3 or 4. Since my VBAC six months ago, I am still amazed every day when a different woman (usually a fellow mother) says,' oh you had to have a repeat c section, right?' They are always surprised when I say, no, not for me, it was safer to do it normally. And drug free. And it was awesome. I wish women were MUCH better informed. MsAbsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4936905206079131856.post-243656345665860932012-10-10T13:39:09.703-07:002012-10-10T13:39:09.703-07:00Amen! Before having my 4th baby I did some researc...Amen! Before having my 4th baby I did some research into whether a 4th caesarean was "allowed". The more I read and learned, the more I realised that the risks of that 4th CS far outweighed the (tiny) risk associated with VBA3C.<br />I fought tooth and nail to be "allowed" to give birth in the way that I chose but got my VBA3C in 2006.Tina Coleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12162751189164768755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4936905206079131856.post-56550338330682063672012-10-10T12:48:08.887-07:002012-10-10T12:48:08.887-07:00Poor Tori! It's hard enough being a mom to a n...Poor Tori! It's hard enough being a mom to a newborn and having the emotional rollercoaster from your hormone crash, etc., etc. than to have the WHOLE WORLD criticize and judge you... and nothing you say can change that opinion. <br /><br />It's a BROKEN SYSTEM; I don't see why people are wagging their fingers at the momma. Who knows? Maybe if she didn't have PP she would have wanted a VBAC?! And even if she didn't it is HER body and HER birth. Not that there isn't inherent risk, as there is, but I just don't see how it is helpful for so many people to trash her. <br /><br />And I totally agree about how everyone is quick to put disclaimers about home birth and natural birth, etc., etc. but if you utter a word of risk about induction or cesareans or anything else that is medically indicated everyone spazzes out and loses it. I don't GET it!!!Joy@WDDCHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03709113785857792361noreply@blogger.com